I came across these pictures of Mrs. Swizz Beats and I have to give props where they are do. She looks beautiful and timeless as usual.
Once A Cheater Always…..? September 15, 2011
With a the buzz surrounding Swizz Beatz allegedly cheating on Alicia Keys, are you really surprised? It makes you think is the saying true “once a cheater always a cheater”. You can’t necessarily put that stigma on every person that cheats. Everybody that cheats has their own reason for cheating, correct? You think though well if that’s how you got him then thats how you will lose em. Not necessarily, I think very few cases the outside relationship ends up lasting but usually it doesn’t.
Whats the reason for cheating in the first place? Why not spare the other person the heartache and just end your current relationship? I really think some people get off on the thrill of possibly being caught. I have noticed some people just don’t want the commitment so they seek other people that are already in a relationship so they know that they don’t have to worry about getting their feelings hurt.
With that said if you cheat or your partner cheats is there a chance they will cheat again? Even if they don’t there will always be that thought in the back of your head that it could possibly happen again. Then you have people in relationships that except it. I hear alot of times “well thats just how men are”. No no boo not all men want to step out on there woman. Some men actually have the will power to control the little head! I had this conversation in girl talk on Friday with on of my girls. Why even put your self in a relationship if you know you still want to test the waters?
With cheating you must remember that it takes two to tango. You can’t always blame one party. One may have seduced the other but I think we all old enough to know we can’t always have the things we want (lust).
Do you think that Swizz cheated on Alicia? We all know he cheated on Mashonda, if not with Alicia he did with the singer in London that has his daughter. Do you feel like once someone cheats they will always?
www.menstuff.org had some interesting statistics, here they are below:
- 22 percent of married men have strayed at least once during their married lives.
- 14 percent of married women have had affairs at least once during their married lives.
- Younger people are more likely candidates; in fact, younger women are as likely as younger men to be unfaithful.
- 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men did not know of their spouses’ extramarital activity.
- 22 percent of men and 14 percent of women admitted to having sexual relations outside their marriage sometime in their past.
- 90 percent of Americans believe adultery is morally wrong.
- 17 percent of divorces in the United States are caused by infidelity
Keep A Child Alive September 14, 2011
Good morning world! My daughter is texting me online and asking me can she sign up for something and she is giving me a site that it’s not valid. So I check her Facebook to find out that it’s Alicia Keys foundation Keep a Child Alive. I go on this site to see what she is talking about and find some interesting things. Alicia is hosting the annual Black Ball November 3rd at the Hammerstein Ballroom in New York City. Also the site has a store and I found these beautiful totes. They are Ineza totes. Here are the patterns that stood out for me but I love all of them!
I would love to see these patterns on clothing! Shorts or skirts!
Created by the Ineza Women’s Cooperative at our Centreville Clinic in Rwanda, this tote bag represents the strength and renewal of female survivors of the 1994 genocide in Rwanda. These women, once among the most sick and impoverished in our care, can now earn a living wage and support themselves and their families. Your purchase of each one-of-a-kind tote bag helps KCA continue to provide our patients with the medical care they need, and empower them with financial independence. 60% of the purchase price will directly benefit Keep a Child Alive